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New Parent Google Syndrome
“New Parent Google Syndrome” (NPGS) – a term that I have coined as a result of my obsessive compulsion to Google everything (absolutely...
Karla Wobito
Feb 26, 20252 min read


New Mom Life
Hello, 2025! I guess we’re past the “Happy New Year” sentiment at this point considering we are now at January’s end. I’ve been on a bit...
Karla Wobito
Jan 31, 20252 min read


The "Bounce Back".
Any woman who has experienced or is currently living through postpartum life has more than likely heard of the dreaded “bounce back.”...
Karla Wobito
Sep 10, 20242 min read


When a "rainbow" baby comes into the world, they bring much joy, but they do not fill the void from the baby we've lost.
“Rainbow baby” is the term commonly used to describe a baby born after losing a baby/pregnancy. A rainbow baby does NOT replace a lost...
Karla Wobito
Aug 20, 20241 min read


My birth Story.
On the morning of June 7th, I was feeling all the regular nerves one would expect to feel on the day they were scheduled to be induced to...
Karla Wobito
Jul 29, 202410 min read


To Doppler or not to Doppler.
To Doppler or not to Doppler – that is the question. What exactly am I questioning here? Well, one of the common considerations that loss...
Karla Wobito
May 29, 20242 min read


Guilt During Mat Leave.
As I start the beginning of a new maternity leave, I think back to last year during the time I was granted off after losing our baby. I...
Karla Wobito
May 22, 20242 min read


A Poem for Our First.
I won’t forget, it was the very first test – how lucky we were; you were such a gift. I won’t forget the excitement we felt; our plans...
Karla Wobito
May 15, 20241 min read


Bring on the Appointments.
Last week was the start of my latest new experience in pregnancy after loss; the start of recurring health check appointments that will...
Karla Wobito
May 6, 20242 min read


The Importance of Kick Counts.
I first learned about kick counts during the second trimester of my first pregnancy. What I don’t think I realized then was how important...
Karla Wobito
Apr 22, 20242 min read


Anterior Placenta.
As anyone who’s been pregnant after experiencing a loss can tell you, anxiety levels are already inherently high without any sort of...
Karla Wobito
Apr 3, 20242 min read


What does pregnancy after loss look like?
Pregnancy after loss is: *Checking miscarriage stats every few days *Googling every symptom you have over and over again *Worrying about...
Karla Wobito
Mar 28, 20241 min read


What's the Diagnosis?
When I got my six week clearance after giving birth, we were both more than ready to get on a plane and escape as quickly as we could. We...
Karla Wobito
Mar 14, 20244 min read


Breaking the Three-Month-Wait Rule
Why is it that we wait for three months before telling our friends and family that we’re pregnant? Since the chances of losing a baby...
Karla Wobito
Feb 27, 20242 min read


Opting Out.
When logging into any form of social media during the holidays there can be a lot of triggering content for loss moms and families....
Karla Wobito
Dec 22, 20232 min read


Breaking and Building the Routine Checkup.
In Canada we are so blessed to have the free (for the most part) healthcare system that we have. Especially as a pregnant woman getting...
Karla Wobito
Dec 4, 20232 min read


First Encounters of the Loss Kind.
When we first found out that we had lost our baby, we decided to only inform a handful of our closest loved ones. We asked for them to...
Karla Wobito
Nov 7, 20234 min read


Triggers.
When we got home after the devastating few days that we had in the hospital, even though it was difficult to do anything but lay in bed...
Karla Wobito
Oct 16, 20232 min read


One Hard Pill to Swallow.
When my doctor prescribed me a pill to stop my lactation while still in the hospital, I was relieved. I was relieved that I wouldn’t have...
Karla Wobito
Sep 26, 20232 min read


Maybe the Maternity Ward Isn't Made for All Mothers.
It had been one of the most mentally and physically exhausting days that I had ever gone through. With an IV in my arm and antibiotics...
Karla Wobito
Sep 18, 20232 min read
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